Breaking up with someone you love hurts. Make no bones about it. There's nothing good or fun about breaking up on either side of the coin. People who love you or once loved you aren't going around looking for new ways to cause you pain. They aren't interested in being made out to be the "bad guy" in the story of your relationship. No one wins in this situation. Unfortunately
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There really aren't any easy answers in this situation. Even the answers that seem the simplest have complicated aspects to them. But
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But there are a few things you can do that will help.
? Take a second job. Staying busy does wonders for you on many levels. It helps your financial situation so that you aren't as stressed over money. It feels empty hours that would otherwise be spent thinking about your ex. It gives you one less thing to worry about in life (job security seems so much less of a concern when you already have an additional job lined up).
? Get an education. A lot of people are going back to school these days. Many colleges are perfectly willing to accommodate adult and returning students with "life experience" credits and a wide range of learning options from online classes to night classes and even Saturday classes. This means you can get an education without placing your employment at risk. While you're doing this you'll be so busy learning about new and exciting things that you won't have time to give much thought to your ex.
? Avoid painful reminders. Don't go to the places you went together or the places your ex is likely to be. It will hit you like a sucker punch when you least expect it and the pain will be front and center all over again and for days to come. Get rid of items in your home that remind you of your ex. Remove your ex's information from your mobile phone
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Of course you could just get your ex back and that would eliminate the need for all the additional steps mentioned above. All you need is a effective plan of action like this one:
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